I Have A #FOMO

If you have been around social media for any length of time, you may have come across the hashtag, or term, FOMO. FOMO is defined by the Urban Dictionary as the "fear of missing out." This seems to apply more to the fear of missing a social event, and I am well above the partying age.

What does this have to do with genealogy? I subscribe to (so) many feeds that supply me with a genealogy and records fix: Twitter, Facebook, blogs, email, and the internet in general. The internet, as you all well know, is almost exploding with more databases, more researchers, more groups and societies and museums, more experts, more amateurs, more of everything everyday. I think it applies to every field, not just genealogy. But what will happen if I don't read about the newest "it" thing? What will I miss??

I am self-diagnosing myself with FOMO. My name is Sally and I am addicted to social media. You can even take a quiz. Here are my results:

I have to admit to myself that I just cannot keep up this pace! I crave knowledge and therefore will always have a FOMO.

My own life consists of a near-full time job that I enjoy, and a home and family with two busy kids and their running exploits. I even signed up for two online college courses. I am possibly probably deranged. But I can't help it. You know the saying that young children's brains are like sponges and they keep absorbing information? That's me, except a 40-something version.

Back to genealogy. I need to really harness my abilities and focus. We recently took a personality management inventory at work, and not surprisingly, I am "analytical" and a "coordinator." These are the traits that enabled my genealogy drive in the first place, so many moons ago. I am really good at honing in from the big picture to find the important data. The genealogy hunches? Mine are always spot-on. This is what I need to get back to and stop worrying about what I may or may not be missing. I can always search later...right?

I will be around. I may not post as frequently, but I will post. The blog will always be the cousin bait. The website will always house the family tree. I will always be on social media. My FOMO won't disappear that fast!

Some ideas:

• update website more regularly
• be active, rather then passive when searching for cousins
• revisit message boards and re-post
• research..again!

Wish me luck!

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